Proverbs 18:2,13
Fools find no pleasure in understanding but delight in airing their own opinions.
To answer before listening--that is folly and shame.
These verses from proverbs really hit home for me In the work that I do, it is imperative that I do more listening than talking. But I have been on the other end of this equation any number of times, as well. There is nothing more discouraging than receiving a response to a concern, only to realize our concern wasn't correctly heard in the first place. Sometimes we need to listen for a very long time, and then say very little. This is often the most meaningful communication. Being heard is more important than being answered.
Holy Lord, Help me to be a good listener, and to be less concerned about expressing an opinion. You are the ultimate listener, hearing all of my concerns, but letting me know in many ways that I am heard. Amen
Becky, transforming
Peoverbs 18:2 and 18:13
From the “Message”
2. Fools care nothing for thoughtful discourse; all they do is run off at the mouth.
13. Answering before listening is both stupid and rude.
I love Proverbs-they are so spot on. I also love the “Message” because it takes spot on and uses today’s language so there is no wondering what it means. I especially like verse 13 because it is something I need to work on. I will think I know what someone is going to say, so I interrupt—incorrectly—to their annoyance. I am trying to be better but I still have work to do on my listening skills.
Prayer, Gracious God, you know I am trying to listen carefully. Hel…
Friday, September 1, 2023
Proverbs 18:2-13
A fool takes no pleasure in understanding, but only in expressing his opinion.
If one gives an answer before he hears, it is his folly and shame.
Listening is an act of understanding as we try to see a situation through another person’s eyes and understand how they’re feeling. You can’t do this when you’re judging them as they’re talking. I believe that people will open up more when you’re not judging them. Extend respect, compassion, grace, and forgiveness that you would like it extended to you. Wait for the other person to finish talking before commenting or asking a question. It can be rude to stop the person mid-sentence because you need t…
Proverbs 18:2,13
The wisdom of Proverbs is timeless. This reminds of the old adage about having two ears, one mouth an using them in proper proportion. Socrates has something to add to the discussion as well. He is attributed to have once said, “There are only two kinds of people: fools who think they are wise, and the wise, who know they are fools.” And lastly there is Abraham Lincoln who said, “Better to remain silent and let people think you are a fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt.“ In this instant everything, electronic age where some publish their every opinion on every subject, these are words and wisdom to consider.
Prayer - God of wisdom,…